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What if I told my boss I can’t come in because my cat is laying down on me and my medication makes me sleepy?

inner-realms:

is anyone else here struggling with dissociative states and can tell me how they deal with it?! please

What I do, with varying levels of success, is try to ground myself. I say what day it is, what month, what year. I say the names of things out loud. I talk about a recent memory out loud. Saying something out loud makes it real, makes it solid — to me, anyway. Hope this helps.

, #anxiety #ptsd #grounding techniques
o0missmadmagic0o:

"The Pilot Feeling" 

Sometimes, under extreme stress, this happens to me. It’s as though I retreat into my head and become the pilot of my body. 

Sensations are less intense there. I can choose how far I can feel my limbs but it usually stops at my elbows and knees (but I can still fully control them)

 My thoughts are quiet because I am my thoughts. I see though my eyes like bright windows to another world that isn’t the safe place where my mind is keeping me. 

It’s definitely odd and not a place I like to go. Yet, when my mind deems the situation worthy, I end up there for a while.

o0missmadmagic0o:

"The Pilot Feeling"

Sometimes, under extreme stress, this happens to me. It’s as though I retreat into my head and become the pilot of my body.

Sensations are less intense there. I can choose how far I can feel my limbs but it usually stops at my elbows and knees (but I can still fully control them)

My thoughts are quiet because I am my thoughts. I see though my eyes like bright windows to another world that isn’t the safe place where my mind is keeping me.

It’s definitely odd and not a place I like to go. Yet, when my mind deems the situation worthy, I end up there for a while.

, #dissosiation #ptsd
This is a profoundly orange tree. (at Cooperstown, New York)

This is a profoundly orange tree. (at Cooperstown, New York)

You know what would be fucking nice?

If Tumblr told me I had messages. I just clicked on that deceitful envelope for the first time in months so I could bask in the emptiness… and I had messages — messages I could have replied to. I could have had conversations about recent subjects, and now it’s too late because I don’t want to be that person who replies to things too late. Does that make sense?

But hey, once the rage subsided I felt special. And also shitty again because I didn’t/will not respond because of advanced awkward. 

Yeah. Yeah that’s the way. 

, #littlerant

thescienceofjohnlock:

artofabrooklynboy:

GODDAMN IT TUMBLR, CAN YOU AT LEAST GIVE US THEIR NAMES?!?!?

  1. Ching Shih was a prominent pirate in middle Qing China, who terrorized the China Sea in the early 19th century. She commanded over 300 junks manned by 20,000 to 40,000 pirates[2] another estimate has Cheng’s fleet at 1800 and crew at about 80,000[3][4]— men, women, and even children. She challenged the empires of the time, such as the British, Portuguese and the Qing dynasty. Undefeated, she would become one of China and Asia’s strongest pirates, and one of world history’s most powerful pirates. She was also one of the few pirate captains to retire from piracy.
  2. Nancy Wake (one of the few white women on this list; of course you put her name on the graphic…)
  3. Lyudmila Pavlichenko
  4. Rukhsana Kausar
  5. The Gulabi gang (gulabi is Hindi for “pink”) was founded by Sampat Pal Devi, a mother of five and former government health worker (as well as a former child bride), as a response to widespread domestic abuse and other violence against women.[3]Gulabis visit abusive husbands and threaten to beat them with laathis (sticks) unless they stop abusing their wives. Al Jazeera reports there are 400,000 members across Northern India.
  6. Neejra Bhanot was just 22 when terrorists from the Abu Nidal Organization hijacked Pan Am Flight 73, where she was the senior flight purser. After 17 hours (and yes, hiding American passports to protect those passengers), when the hijackers opened fire and set off explosives, Bhanot opened the emergency door and helped a number of passengers escape. She could have been the first to jump out when she opened the door but she decided not and was shot while shielding three children from a hail of bullets. Bhanot was recognized internationally as “the heroine of the hijack” and is the youngest recipient of the Ashok Chakra Award, India’s most prestigious gallantry award for bravery during peace time.
  7. Zainab Bibi, 42, allegedly told authorities she killed her husband Ahmad Abbas because he tried to sexually assault her 17-year-old daughter from another marriage.
  8. In September 2006, Susan Kuhnhausen found an intruder in her southeast Portland, OR home. “I saw a man step out of the shadows and he began to hit me in the head and the face with a hammer,” said Kuhnhausen. “I got the hammer and started hitting him with the hammer several times. My father, the carpenter, always taught me a hammer could be used for self defense — the claw end would work the best,” said Kuhnhausen. Kuhnhausen’s husband, Michael, had hired Ed Haffey to kill his wife.
  9. Seriously, fuck this one. The photo is of Parinya Chareonphol or Nong Thoom who is a kathoey, which many Thai believe to be a third gender (as opposed to the Western idea of ‘transgender’.) After a short time as a Buddhist monk, she took up Muy Thai kickboxing to support her parents and make enough money to pay for her sex-reassignment surgery, and basically kicked ass at it for several years. She was not “constantly made fun of before fights;” the Muy Thai community embraced her and her presence greatly revitalized both media and public interest in the sport, as shown by increased ticket sales and stadium revenue. The movie Beautiful Boxer was made about her, and she has recently acted in Mercury Man as well as continuing to kickbox. So yeah, fuck this one hard.
  10. Juliane Diller née Koepcke was the only survivor of the LANSA Flight 508 crash in 1971. Despite sustaining a broken collar bone, a deep gash to her right arm, a concussion and an eye injury in the fall, she was able to trek through the dense Amazon jungle for 10 days, until she was rescued by local lumbermen, who subsequently took her by canoe back to civilization. It was later discovered that as many as 14 other passengers also survived the initial fall from the disintegrated plane but were unable to seek help and died while awaiting rescue.

Seriously, guys, this took me like 20 minutes using Google and Wikipedia. These women are real people with real names and real stories. Please don’t reduce them to a picture (most of which came from Wikipedia in the first place oh my god i know you were there) and an “uplifting” story.

Look at these kickass women, and remember their names!!

We need a lot more women being remembered for what they did, rather than what they looked like.

(Source: mehhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh)

brinepools:

reasons I can relate to a possum:

-tired & unkempt
-emotions ranging from “displeased” to “existential scream”
-no work ethic
-lies around looking dead when overwhelmed
-will eat trash & live amongst trash if left to own devices
-sometimes you feel bad and feed it a sandwich

represent

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